Relationship Minute: The “Play” Date

In “Eight Dates,” Drs. John and Julie Gottman write, “Our lives and relationships are better, brighter, and more fun when we remember to play, when we inject some adventure.”

When was the last time you and your partner scheduled a “play” date?

Just like parents arrange for their children to play with other kids at a park, you can be intentional about planning time together where you seek out a joint adventure.

Think beyond your standard dinner and a movie night. You can go on a scavenger hunt looking for items around your neighborhood. If you want to stick closer to home, pick out an online game or board game that’s new to you both and contains a lot of laughs. The point is to facilitate a positive experience that brings excitement back into your relationship.

So, go play! It’s good for you both.

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